Visa Application

When I told my colleagues that I am gonna need to apply for Japan visa, most of them were surprised 😓

What do you mean you need to apply for Visa just to go to Japan? I thought Indonesians don’t need to apply!

Well, sorry to burst your bubble… but yep, Indonesians DO still need to apply for visa (I know, sucks. But ordinary people can’t choose.)

My last two trips to Japan didn’t need me to take care of my visa on my own. When I went there for research student program, my visa was taken care of Japan Embassy in Indonesia. When I had my on board training last year, my visa was handled by my office manager as well. So this trip is going to be my first time applying visa on my own.

For something like this, I usually would do research first before preparing the documents, i.e surfing for other people’s experience; but since I didn’t really have time (lies, I know.), I decided to just go ahead with what I saw on their website for short term visit pass requirements.

Based on the link, I need to prepare these documents:

  • Passport (original) – OK. Should be easy. Considered done.
  • Visa application form and 1 passport-sized photo – A bit challenging to fill up. More details below.
  • Certification of employment (original) – Need to request this to your boss. But OK, this one is easy as well.
  • Flight itinerary – printed out the e-itinerary.
  • Updated bank statement – printed out from e-banking. Actually from the explanation on the website, PRs don’t need to submit bank statement if we can produce valid Certification of Employment; but we still printed and brought it anyway, just in case.
  • Identity card (photocopy) – Done.
  • Letter of Authorization – Husband needed to sign this as I was the one submitting the visa application on behalf of him.

Right, sounds easy. Should be OK. But the fact is, we encountered some minor problems when we tried to complete the documents.

❗️ Some columns in visa application form are questionable for us. Like, Japan guarantor details. We even needed to fill up the DOB of the guarantor 😨  We don’t have a guarantor for this trip, what should we do? After searching for other people’s experience and asked my friends, finally we just filled up those questionable ones with ‘N.A’

❗️ There is also a column of ‘ID Number issued by your government’. At first I thought this was supposed to be your passport no. But below that column, there is also another column to fill up your passport no! So, we went and fill it up with our Citizen number (KTP, if you will). As for Zal’s application, we just wrote ‘N.A’, because although he’s Indonesian, he doesn’t have ID number yet – not even Indonesian birth certificate.

❗️ We had some doubts with Zal’s documents. Obviously, he doesn’t have some documents listed on the website, e.g Certification of Employment, Bank Statement, etc. So I sent an email inquiry to the embassy, and they replied with this list as per below (really fast!)

  • LETTER OF SPONSORSHIP – A letter of sponsorship from the financial sponsor. (From mother/father. In Zal’s case, I will be his sponsor)
  • PROOF OF RELATIONSHIP (Photocopy) – Documents such as Certificate of Marriage and Certificate of Birth are required to be submitted if the sponsor is an immediate family member of the applicant. (I submitted his Birth Certificate which has my name there as his mother)
  • OTHER REQUIREMENTS OF SPONSOR – Sponsors should submit their personal bank statement or updated bank passbook showing the latest 1-month’s banking transactions, together with photocopies of passport and Singapore I.D (i.e. Permanent Resident I.C., Employment Pass, Work Permit, SV Pass or Dependent Pass). (I didn’t submit my passport copy and only my IC copy)

❗️ Passport-sized photo is also a problem when you have a toddler. It’s so difficult to take Zal’s photo without him moving around or trying to take away the camera from you. So I finally resorted to use his photos from his latest LTVP’s application back in April. He was crying in that picture, but I figured it should do anyway.

❗️ Since we’re going to use AirBNB for our accommodation, I also printed out our booking confirmation for our rooms. I also wrote down the address of the AirBNB accommodation for our Visa application form.

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Short term visit pass to Japan is applicable for 90 days. Since we’re going to travel in November, it should be safe if we apply for it in October. But being a kiasu people that we are, of course we decided to submit earlier. Like, a month earlier.

So we decided to apply by end of September. I took one day leave just to apply for it cause in my mind, it would be very crowded and I don’t like the feeling of being chased by time and rushed back to work. Moreover, the visa application operating hours is only from 8.30 am – 12.00 pm, so I really need to rush.

I don’t know why but in Singapore, embassies are always located in a location far from everywhere and it’s usually very very secluded. Like for instance, Indonesian Embassy. You will still need to take bus from nearest MRT station, and then you still need to walk about 15 mins from the bus stop! This is why I am always so lazy to visit ANY embassy in Singapore. The fastest way to reach embassy is by cab, and it’s gonna cost me a lot!

Japan Embassy is no different. It’s at 16 Nassim Rd, and if you take a look at Google Maps, you would soon notice that it’s again located in a secluded area near Orchard. But I had no choice. So I promised myself I am gonna wake up early and reached there early as well hence I don’t need to take a cab at all.

Obviously, it didn’t happen. Having a toddler that goes to sleep around midnight does make you question your ability to wake up early 😓

I only woke up at 8.30 am on D-day, and I still needed to pump cause I couldn’t bring Zal with me (damn you haze), so I ended up only leaving house around 10 am. And of course, I took a cab. There goes my plan to save money 💸

Anyway, this is how Japan Embassy looks like.

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Picture from here.

If there’s no plate outside with the writing “Japan Embassy”, I swear no one would ever thought that that place is an embassy.

I went through the guard and told him that I was there to apply for visa. He checked my IC and let me pass. Went inside and I found out the room for visa application is just on my left. That was handy.

Once inside, there is a queue machine. I took my number and sat on the chairs. There were only quite a few people there, surprisingly. I didn’t take a picture inside cause I thought it’s not allowed.

I only waited for about 10 minutes until my number was called. The lady asked how many applications I was going to submit. Then she asked me to remove the passport’s cover. First she checked my husband’s documents, then she moved to Zal’s documents, before she realized that I am his sponsor.

💁 : “So, you are the sponsor for your son?”

😸 : “Yes, I am.”

💁: “OK, then I check yours first.”

Then she took my documents and checked mine. When she’s done with mine, she went through Zal’s documents once again.

💁: “Ohhh, why is he crying?” *points at his picture*

😸: “Errr. Not easy to take his picture.”

And then, that’s it! Done. I was given three receipts to take the visa 3 days after. I thought I am supposed to make payment on the spot, but apparently, the payment is when you fetch the visa. 

I went outside when it’s done. Feeling happy that the whole process just took me about 15 minutes. I wonder why it can be this fast in Singapore but not in Indonesia?

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Will update this post later when we received our visa! 🎉🎉

Update by 30.10.15

Yay, got our visa, alhamdulillah! They only gave us 15 days, but it’s already more than enough 🙂 Now, off to itinerary!

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Japan Visa Application

Where to apply : Japan Embassy at 16 Nassim Rd

Fee : 35 SGD / visa (payment when you collect the visa)

Visa application time : before lunch

Visa collection time : after lunch

Breastpumps Review

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A friend of mine said that I am a very persistent pumping mom. My boy is already 19 months old and yet I am still pumping 4 times a day just like the usual. She even said I may love pumping too much!

Well, to be honest, every pumping mum will tell you that they are in a love-hate relationship with pumping. We love pumping because it gives us opportunity to give our children the best nutrient we can while still doing something else, but at the same time we hate pumping cause really… it’s a hassle to do!

Let me give you a quick rundown of my schedule on working days.

Morning

Wake up – pumping – gulping down breakfast – taking shower – rush to work

At office

Pump every 3 hours (do not forget the additional time for setting up the pump and cleaning afterwards)

Afternoon

Rushing back home – nursing baby as soon as I can

Night

Keep nursing till baby sleeps – Another session of pumping when your pumping result during the day is not enough to cover what your baby drinks

And the cycle repeats every day.

Actually, once baby crosses 1 year mark, I can loosen my pumping schedule cause breastmilk is no longer baby’s main food. But I don’t have a heart to do that cause Zal likes breastmilk so much he still drinks the same amount like before he started solid! And honestly, seeing that he grows healthy gives me so much satisfaction and motivation to keep going on pumping.

So yeah. Here I am, 16 months and still going on strong. Hopefully.

Wow I digress a lot from the title. Hahahaha.

Anyway, my point is, being a working and pumping mom, I have been using some breastpumps along my journey. So I am writing this for my personal review on breastpumps that I have been using so far.

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Medela Swing

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When we first think about breast pump, more often than not, Medela is the first brand that pops out. And it’s inevitable seeing how they seem to dominate the market. Well, same goes with me and Husband. We only knew Medela, plus several other brands that we weren’t even aware of.

Unfortunately, popular brand is often pricey; same thing goes for Medela. In fact, Medela is very expensive here in Singapore that we decided to just look for promotion in Indonesia. And even with a hefty price tag, Medela is widely popular back in our hometown that it’s almost always out of stock!

Luckily, my sister in law (who had already started pumping when I was only 3-4 months pregnant) managed to put an advanced order for two sets of Medela Swing at one of baby shops in Jakarta. Even with an advance order, I still remember that we paid almost 200 bucks for one set.

I started using Medela Swing when Zal was only 3 days old – for reasons that are too long to be explained here – and continued using it for the next 7 months. I am not an oversupply mom, but with Swing, I managed to get Zal passing his 6 months mark of exclusive breastmilk 🙂

Pros:

  • The suction is really gentle.
  • Simple and easy to wash and sterilise. It’s a single pump, so it’s expected.
  • The parts aren’t that many. Again, it’s expected.

Cons:

  • The spareparts are expensive.
  • Motor is loud.
  • Takes too long to empty both breasts because it’s single pump.

Verdict:

If you’re not a heavy user like me (I pump three times at work), I’d say go for this. Medela brand is reliable and you will not find any difficulties to use it. I’ve never been to their service center in Singapore, but the spareparts shops are plenty.

Medela Swing Maxi

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When I started working with my current company, Zal was only 8 months old. As part of the training program, I needed to fly to Tokyo for 5 days. Seeing how packed the schedule was, I realized that single pump would not do for me anymore. So, I decided to purchase a double pump.

There are lots of choices for double pump, but I only had my eyes on Medela Swing Maxi. From what I had read, it has the suction just like Medela Swing (which I already knew how that feels) but it’s just more efficient cause it’s double pump. Again, Medela price is unbelievably and ridiculously high in Singapore, so with the help of a very nice junior of mine *wink*, again I bought the set from Jakarta. It only costed half of Singapore price!

Pros:

  • Super fast in emptying both breasts. I only needed about 20 mins or so.
  • For some reasons, it’s more durable than Medela Swing.

Cons:

  • Motor is even louder than Medela Swing.
  • More parts to be washed and sterilized.

Verdict:

I love Medela brand, and most probably I would still be using it 4 times a day if it’s not because of the super loud motor. So if you’re looking for a durable double pump, go for Medela Swing Maxi. It has been serving me well for the past 10 months as a working mom.

Tommee Tippee Manual

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I also own a single manual pump. My in laws got this from me as a spare if something happened to my electric pump. So far I only tried it once, and to be honest, my body doesn’t respond well to this pump. And it’s tiring for my hand as well. But it’s still good to have a spare at home. Just in case.

Pros:

  • Compact and easy to use

Cons:

  • Tiring to use

Verdict:

It depends on individual’s body I think. My body doesn’t respond well to this pump so I don’t yield a lot using this pump. But I’ve heard stories from mummies who can even pump more using this manual pump. To each of his own I guess.

Lacte Duet

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This is my new favorite! OK I am biased haha. The background story is, I had been pumping in office’s phone booth for several months now, but as our company grows bigger and more people coming, I can’t always use phone booth 3 times a day 30 minutes each anymore, so I had to find alternative.

A lot of working mummies are also in the same situation with me and they are pumping on their desk using nursing cover. They will put their breast pump inside their drawer and just pump. That sounds convenient! Besides, my line of job requires me to be standby on my desk most of the time, so perhaps pumping on the desk is the solution!

The problem is, my Medela Swing Maxi is really loud, and although you close the drawer, you can still hear its sound. So I need to find another quieter breast pump.

There were two options I could find online and they are both from Malaysia. One is Malish Ilaria, and the other one is Lacte Duet. I am not a big fan of Spectra, so I am gonna skip that.

Between those two, Lacte Duet is quieter according to some mummies, so I decided to purchase it. But apparently it’s super expensive as well! It costs 299 SGD if you bought it at Mothercare. I surfed online and finally managed to get it with 169 SGD price! Quite a deal, eh?

I have been using Lacte Duet for almost two months now. And so far, it has been handy and living up to its reputation as a quiet pump. I have been testing it with my female colleague around, and she said she can’t hear a sound when I closed the drawer, unless she stood really close to me.

As with the male colleagues, well I honestly don’t really care x) Most of them know about me pumping, and they don’t seem to really care either lol.

Pros:

  • Silent. Definitely quieter than Medela.
  • Double pump. Fast.
  • Can be used with powerbank/anything with USB adaptor. Super convenient!
  • Equipped with back flow adaptor, which makes sure that milk won’t flow in the tube (happened to me several times with Medela Swing)
  • Can choose different suction levels for left and right breast! But I never used this option so far.

Cons:

  • Warranty is from Malaysia. So if anything goes wrong, I guess need to send the unit to Malaysia.
  • It has more parts than Medela. Hence the assembly time takes longer.
  • You have to make sure all parts are connected very very tight. Otherwise, the valve may be disconnected from the tube (happened to me several times already)
  • It doesn’t seem to fit well with my Simple Wishes hands free bra. Some mummies that I asked said that they don’t really use hands free bra when using Lacte Duet.

Verdict:

Despite the cons, I am still pretty satisfied with Lacte Duet. First, it’s quiet. Second, it empties my breast more than Medela. I never really need to do hands expression ever since I started using it. And if you’re a heavy pumper (like me), this will be your new best friend! 🙂

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So, overall if I have to rank these breastpumps I have so far, it will be like this:

Lacte Duet > Medela Swing Maxi >>> Medela Swing >>>>> Tommee Tippee.

Being a working mum is exhausting, and maintaining mood and health for the sake of pumping is even more exhausting; but since I believe I am doing this for the sake of my children’s health, it’s becoming more bearable.

I have to be grateful as well because so far my environment has been pretty supportive with my condition and I hope I can do the same for my future children 🙂

Sweeping The Poop

… literally x)

So this afternoon I got a message from our helper. She said,

Ma’am, Zal is so smart! He brought the broom to the living room while I was at the kitchen. To sweep his poop!

I couldn’t stop laughing x)))))

Afternoon Chat

Me : Hey, how many Muslims at your office?
Y : A lot. About 70%.
Me : And how many of them still care about which one is halal and which one is not?
Y : Haha. There is still a lot that don’t care whether they’re already doing prayer or not. Much less about halal.
Me : That’s just sad.
Y : You will be surprised.

Sunday Afternoon

It had been a hazy week. But finally the air cleared up a bit last Sunday, so we took Zal for a bit of outdoor play at Punggol Park 🙂

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Look at his happy face after sliding down the slide.

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Clearly enjoyed seeing a lot of friends 🙂

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Wondering what to do next…

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…. or perhaps it’s better to just stand there x)

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OK, time to go home.

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BYE!

(He got hit by another boy who is bigger than him. He got a scratch on his head, but he didn’t cry for too long. I whispered to him, “Forgive the older boy..”. Who knows, one day Zal will be the one who bumped another boy accidentally)